Growing pains

In SC, the DOE requires background checks before a parent can chaperone a trip or even help out in the classroom. Now, I totally support this concept. Unfortunately, it is a product of our society. So be it. I like that they are so proactive about our kids' safety. I applied shortly after we got here but, my background check has not been returned to the school yet. With that in mind...................

Becca's class is travelling to Columbia, SC today to the SC State Museum. As most of you know, I am usually my kids' biggest cheerleader, especially when it comes to new experiences. Well friends, today, I am considerably less enthusiastic about letting her go. I HATE that she is so far away, travelling with people I HAVE NEVER met. Hate it, hate it, hate it.

There are so very many things about the move that I never considered. Many because there simply wasn't time to ponder! One thing I never considered - the comfort I, as a hyper-active/involved parent, enjoyed from knowing nearly every kid in the girls class and knowing, at the very least, half of the parents. If I wan unable to go on a field trip, there were a dozen mom's I knew personally who would look after Becca (and Sami when she was in elementary school) as if she were their own child. Some of you are reading this right now! I am a little embarassed to say, but often, I had the teacher's cell phone numbers from another project we may have worked on together.

To top it off, she had to be there early, she won't be home until after 4 AND they forbid the children to bring any electronics - including cell phones! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! I'm dying over here! Thankfully, I have my day filled with preparing for our guests this afternoon. But, as every single parent on the planet knows, there is still plenty of time to worry.

Looks like I have some adjusting of my own to do. I only wish I could embrace my own adjustment with the same zeal with which I encourage the kids to use. Self awareness blows.